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November 20, 2009
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Dear Parents (especially mommas),
1) Don't ever judge other people in front of your child(ren)
2) Don't ever ever give bad remark(s) about other people in front of your child(ren).
First true scenario.
Last last last week (I actually forgot when) I went to fetch Eirsa, as per routine. And as usual, most of the kids will stand in front of the entrance hallway, hoping for their parent(s) to show up. I noticed one new girl. She noticed me and smiled. I smiled back and say hi. Seconds later. her momma came to fetch her. I sincerely smiled at her momma.
The next day and as usual she was among those who would ‘sangkut’ their chin at the entrance grill, with the hope to see their parent(s). She noticed me and smiled AND say "Mama Eirsa rendah je".
DAMN!
It is not a surprised for an adult to throw that remark. I know that my uniqueness is obvious. The remarks to me are expected. But when the remarks come from for a small 5 year old kid?? How do you think she got that? Correct. From her very own parent(s). Oh. This is not the first case. This is the second similar one.
Second true scenario.
There's a girl at Eirsa's nursery. Let's refer her as Happy. Happy is a friendly 4 year old little girl. She’s not an average size of girl. She is just a cute confident butterball. She always says hi to 'Mama Eirsa'. She always has something edible in her hands. Happy is such a happy darling in her own way. Yesterday, a mom came to fetch her daughter. Well, her daughter is a 1+ year old average size girl. The momma noticed Happy and her biscuit. The momma said "Apa yang dia makan tu? Eee… Tengok perut dia!" She repeated this 3 times right in front her daughter. Happy’s smile faded.
So, do your logic. How do you think the your child(ren) would learn from these scenarios?
1) To have a unique figure (like mine or Happy) is not nice or embarrassing?
2) Or is it fun to mock a person when that person's uniqueness is obvious?
This is among the contributors to wrong social skills that the young ones would adapt. And they are so adaptive at these ages. These negativeness would cause, to both the person who mocked and the person who being mocked, the decrease of one's confidence, decrease of self-security and decrease of self-esteem, in which all these are extremely important to build a mentally strong person.
So mommas, those sensitive remarks, just keep it with you. You don't even have any rights to mock Allah's creations, anyway. |
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November 3, 2009
| AhsueZ |
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Hi,
I'm ******. I'm quite interested with the product. I used to try but it's quite costly. And the outcome is not that significant (or perhaps I tried 6 packs of mixed Agels only. Haha..)
A brief background about me and my breastfeeding story. My daughter is almost 8 months now. As of now, she's still full breastfeeding. There was a time when my stock was licin-habis, when she consumed 25 oz per day at the nursery while I could only express around 10 oz only at that time. This era was when she was 5-6+ months old (that means she gone through this phase for almost 2 months). I tried every possible boosters (but not those chemicals); longan, edamame, fenugreek (perhaps not really ALL, but all that I know of). During Ramadhan, alhamdulillah I was able to maintain to express 15 oz per day, and she consumed 18 oz per day (I topped up the EBM to match her consumption during weekend). Thus, all my EBM was day in day out basis.
After raya also my daughter was being introduced with solid food. At first she consumed the blended rice quite a lot and reduced her EBM consumption to 16oz per day (and after raya I was and still able to express around 20 oz per day, I can't never thank Allah enough). But after a month, her appetite towards solid foods was dropped. The nursery assistant told me that she only ate (and still eats) a little and her EBM consumption was (and still is) slightly increased. She consumed 20 oz EBM per day now. As a resule, I was able to only stock up around 20 oz of EBM and still remain as it is as again, my EBM is now back to day in day out basis.
Again, I would like to stress, I'm thankful, grateful and happy with Allah's rezeki what I'm still able to fully breastfeed her.
But my concern is that the production will drop when I start having my first menstrual after deliver. Thus, if Allah permits, I want to increase the production. As of now, I take around 2-3 glasses of soya bean + 2-3 glasses of milk (Anmum Lacta + Dutch Lady Full Cream) + 1-2 glass of barley. And of course some 2-3 glasses of plain water.
So, back to your product, Trial Pack B: Lebih tertumpu kepada ibu yang menyusukan anak. Set ini mengandungi 30 tablet multivitamin@vitalea, 30 tablet B Complex, 30 tablet vitamin C dan 30 tablet Alfalfa. Ia berharga Rm80.
still seems costly if I have to take all at the same time and have to spend RM80 per month. Thus I really hope my investment would return (yes, if Allah permits). So, if possible, I would like your advise before I could proceed to purchase. Advise like how many tablets should I take per day, when could I see the result, how many tablets and what type of tablets should I take to maintain the supply once it's boosted. Yes, I'm not expecting any extraordinary but I would really thankful if this could help me increasing my stock.
Thanks!
* Sorry for this lengthy email.
** If it's easier for you to respond, feel free to add me to your GTalk.
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October 30, 2009
| AhsueZ |
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It's Not Just A Machine. It Needs To Be Defined! |
Hi People!
You are in Melaka (or even not!)?
Do you have laptop(s)? Or perhaps are you planning to have one? Or who cares if you don' even possess one!
It does look dull without color, isn't it?
You don't want your precious to look monotonous, I bet!
Do visit http://aniesdz.blogspot.com for variety of skins to suit you and your laptop style!
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October 22, 2009
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Searching For The Mechanism To Freeze The Moments |
The desire to have a new high-end camera is so high and kept increasing while browsing through the friends and kids' beautiful photos. Poor Pelangi. All her precious once in a lifetime live actions are only caught in mommy and papa's memories. And bet the capacity and quality will degrade while both of them are getting older. One thousand and four hundred plus.. One thousand and four hundred plus.. One thousand and four hundred plus.. |
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October 21, 2009
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She's Not A Mother, Not Even A Human |
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Aku, kalau dapat jumpa perempuan yang tergamak meninggalkan anaknya berseorangan di rumah untuk dijaga oleh teman lelaki Sudan-nya, yang kemudiannya membenarkan anaknya didera secara fizikal, mental dan yang paling sedih sekali seksual itu, aku akan pegang kepala dia dan lagakan ke dinding dengan sekuat-kuat hati. No mercy. At all. Just like what she did to her daughter. Damn I'm angry. *comma* These are some recorded responses in Facebook, from my friends on this issue (I trust the unrecorded versions are a lot more fierce!): Ilyana Noor, Anis Azura, Don Capulet, Nurul Shahidah and Muhammad 'Elmaaniq' Faisal like this. Seqyun Darwish : Agree!! Kalau Kak Lin, hmmm... Memang dia akan tahu langit ni tinggi ke rendah!!! Lin Ismail : Yelah... I tengok Harian Metro ada gambar tu... Dok istighfar tak henti2... Meleleh air mata tengok.. Terbayang anak dekat rumah... Siapa la yang sanggup buat macam tu. Aizulartamir Azman : Aku pun. Atika Latif : Kejamnya mereka ini!!! Nurul Shahida : Will do the same and even might do worse!! Tuh dah bukan manusia! Ilyana Noor : Mak dia punya sayang kat jantan tu boleh lagi nak cover amah buat konon. Afizan Azman : Astaghfirullah al azim... Kat Mmalaysia ke Ana? Apa lah nak jadi skrg ni.... Eliea Jamil : Please count me in too!! Saya juga sangat marah dengan what had happened to the lil girl... Come on, she is just 3 years old!! Can't imagine what she had suffered and her mum still backup his boyfriend!! Bodoh betul!! Both should just be hukum gantung! Ahsuez : I read berita harian this morning. The kid's grandparents paid them a visit last month and discovered some bruises and symptoms of trauma at that kid. The poor kid was obviously terrified when the SATAN was around (sambil cakap "Takut.. Takut" and pointed to the SATAN) but the EVIL mother said that the bruises was caused by the kid's own mishap (jatuh) and the sign of terror was due to the EVIL mother had to teach her daughter a *lesson. That was last month. And within only a month, that poor kid was brutally abused and THANK GOD, He took her away from the brutality, madness, misery. Afizan, yep. It indeed happened here, in Malaysia. In Cheras. *by 'menakut-nakutkan' her daughter with her Satan boyfriend, like certain parents do 'menakut-nakutkan' their kids with some-weird looking person, which I strongly disagree. |
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October 20, 2009
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Pilihan Terletak Di Muka dan Mulut Anda |
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Kau bayangkan. Kau masuk ke pejabat pagi itu. Lalu terus ke meja. Di bahagian belakang pejabat. Kemudian. Terdengar suara bising-bising di bahagian hadapan pejabat. Orang yang membuat bising tu kenal kau dan kau kenal dia. Terdengar juga perkara yang dibisingkan. Perkara itu adalah berkaitan dengan kau. Terdengar seperti dia tidak puas hati dengan kau. Kemudian. Kau keluar. Mahu ke tandas. Terserempak dengan orang itu. Orang itu bermuka manis, sambil menyapa kau, "Eh.. Good morning, darling! You are here already. I thought you haven't arrived". Adakah kau akan : Satu. Bermuka pura-pura manis juga, seperti tidak terdengar apa-apa pagi tadi dan menyapa semula orang itu dengan ramah. Atau. Dua. Bermuka masam dengan orang itu, memandangkan kau sudah terasa dengan perlakuannya sebentar tadi. Tiga. Bermuka manis dan senyum kepada orang itu dengan seikhlas-ikhlasnya sambil menyapa kembali, "Yes, I was around. Why? You were talking bad things about me, huh?" Sekiranya kau memilih pilihan satu atau dua, kau tidak akan dapat rasakan kepuasan seperti pilihan ketiga. Ya. Aku sudah tau perasaannya pagi semalam. |
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October 19, 2009
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Kata-kata Yang Tertinggal Dalam Hati |
Aku : Saya ada bekalkan carrot untuk Eirsa and cara-cara nak sediakan pun saya ada bubuh sekali dalam beg.
Dia : Ha.. Ok. Untuk bagi makan?
Aku : Ha ah. Takkan nak bagi mandi pulak. Kalau macam tu, satu lori carrot pun tak cukup.
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